I think no one will tell it to you , but mostly of women think so.. I won't write who I am (although I have aerosspece education and had a high level in my previous jobs ) , I am not " wet blanket "! , but I would like to сonvey some thoughts to you which , maybe, will demund to understand something and to find right partner here. I will be brief: 1. There are not any women here who are successful ( althout I was it ) and who is very happy in full meaning of these words.....otherwise they were not be here !!!! ..why ? Let's think out more deeply about it!! So don't be imressed if woman tries to find another and more good life in abroad with loving!!! and loved foreigner-man (of course it is ONLY !!! in case if woman looks for a serious relations and wants to create new family , if no - it's another story about frauds ... ). Let's be honest and call things by own names ! 2. Noone is not a fully happy person here ( at least because we are here and we are looking for someone). So , please , don't pretend that you are very happy person . Such as minimum is you are without most important thing in your life - loving own family ! 3. If decent ( attantion , please! ) woman is looking for a finance-stabled man , it doesn't mean she is materialustic ! It isn't right ! It means she is intelligent and just has a brain , by other words she is not silly and thinks about common happy future and for woman it is more difficult situation when she has to leave everything in her country and to try to find a happyness in another country where she can't have many native and close and understandable things for her and even for her mentality sometimes . ( I mean to integreate or assimilate in another country it isn't easy thing and to need to have a strong "male shoulder" who will support, care , help , love and be loving and loved . 4. We ( Slavic people ) have another mentality and sometimes something can be various and strange for you (or for us are too ). Because we had and have a various lives, parentation , life experiance , cultures , traditions, religions, attitude to some deeds and even points of view of life in some cases .So if you don't know about our life anything!!! , and never interested in what we are ...will be a bit difficult in relations in the future for both . There are a lot of information about us in internet (native bloggers in youtube who live in other countries in marriage with foreigner partner , books, google, wikipedia and even examples of your friends in other pairs where woman is foreigner . I know a lot about other cultures/ nations because I read a lot and studied a lot and my few friends live in abroad . So I know that life there from first sources . 5. If you are looking for just sexual adventures , you have to switch on your brain and try to chose special women who are enough here, but don't forget that everything costs something ! I guess they are enough here such as everywhere!!!! But it's not about me and it's not for me ... 6. If man is not going to do anything to create relations ( although in his profile written " serious relations ") , his chances are zero and he will sit here for years ( by the way they are enough here and this is their life to be here for their entertainment in their boring life ). Everyone has what everyone deserves! 7. If man is loser ( downer) in own country ( I am so sorry, but frankly ) where he couldn't have a normal relations with women from his country before , and he thinks that he will assert himself at the expense of the foreign - wife in the future, - such relations will not last long time and not many women will be with similar man at all (or even no one or they are from low social level of sociaty). 8. Dear men who has age more than 10 years from mine I understand your desire to live with younger woman than you, but I would't like to live with that man because if EVEN man is so sportive , active and with good health , in mostly, we will have various attitude to life , and to somethings in life, interests , aims, desires and sometimes even a rythm of life . Years takes their toll! Excuse me, but I think, of course, can be exceptions to the rules but in mostly cases it's not about Real Love ...it's a story about a sober calculation and most often it is just the using each other where a man expects thst he will be served and will be cared by er woman (woman should be such as maid serves and nurse) in his old age, and a woman "goes for it " for material support. (Have you ever seen a happy marriage of unequal age where he is poor, too old , an unknown to anyone, and a young and beautiful woman is with him . Never been so and never is so and never will be so in the future! And it's not my variant : I repeat again I want to live with my man full life without just using each other for own desires!!! I want to be a loving and loved woman ! In my mature age I am young out and inside but already with brain ( ha ha ha) and with life experiance . By the way noone man (such as you too, I guess) never chooses a woman who has more big age than his age , (why you don't choose 75 years old woman or more , for example, for relations ) - please, think out about it! Everything has it's own right time ! Frankly I am not a chatting box (ha ha), but I was demunded to write it because I am tired from waist of time here..
And finaly a little bit about me Everything in us is for everyone is very individually! For most asking questions: my ex passed away ( it was a car accident ) , I am without any children....unfortunately we couldn't have children together by genetics ( he could not have any child and didn't want how foind out then.. ). I want to change my life and to try to find my true love , loving and loved man and to start new happy family . I'm positive person in my life or at least I always try to be on optimistic side , although I had enough grief in life . I love and appreciate every moment in life ! I can say I also appreciate an old school of human values, well-educated and well-mannered people, male sapience and an ability to love and care about another. I prefer a cozy and health life and I can't stand showdown and scandals. AND I AM NOT FOR ONE NIGHT STAND or SEX ESCORT ! ( It's about meeting in reality in the future ) . If you have something to tell , don't be shy , welcome ! . And a litlle notice : O yeah, we (most of our normal women) like a sympatic or handsome (ha ha ha) men, but who are not stupid (silly) and who are not arrogant and who are the Real men! Thank you if you read that at all ( if you have not fallen asleep yet ...ha ha ha ) and I excuse me - I wasn't going to give an offence to anyone and )) Everyone sees what wants to see! Lets try to know each step by step and we will see!!! Thank you !
你怎样描述你理想的伴侣?
Intelligent , well- educated and well - manered , faithful and reliable Real and simpatico Man
如果你知道时间在30天后终止,你愿意做什么?
Won't believe in it!
如果你有一千万美元,你打算做什么?
I will give part of them to sick children ..to treat them
你经常向谁请教?
No one
对于同性别的人,你最看重什么品质?
Kind and female wise
对于异性,你最看重什么品质?
Well manners ( to be Gentelman) , erudition , and ability to love and care!
你生命中最近的一次重要事件是什么,是怎样影响你的?
Closing our company and I am looking for new job . Can you help me with new job?
你能给自己孩子最好的教诲是什么?
If you want to reach your targets , need to work for them!
什么给你留下了深刻的印象或震惊?
Hypocrisy
你最近读过的书?
Some detectives
你现在的目标?
To find a good Real man for create something strong in the future ( I hope )
你羡慕谁?
Talant people in their own areas !
你的朋友多吗?
Quite enough
对于同性,你最讨厌哪些品质?
Lie and hypocrisy
对于异性,你最讨厌哪些品质?
Lie, treason , egocentrism and laziness
对于自己,你愿意改变什么?
I always decided all independently, maybe need to give to man to solve some important things
你的弱点是什么?
Maybe independence..
你的强项是什么?
Let's explore of course they are but I have many merrits . It's not a modest , but it's true !
你的朋友怎么看待你?
Friendly, kind, fun, intelligent ,
你的熟人怎么看待你?
Intelligent , even wise (sometimes ) and fun
你最喜欢的游戏是什么?
Don't have them.
你最喜欢的作家和诗人是谁?
Bulgakov and Cvetaeva.
你喜欢什么音乐?
Pop, jazz and also sometimes classic music
你最喜欢什么食物?
Sea food, fish and a lot of various vegetables and fruits
你最喜欢什么电影?
Letter in bottle
你最喜欢的童话故事是什么?
Cinderella
你最喜欢的活动或爱好是什么?
I like a lot )
你梦寐以求的工作是什么?
Which gives two things together : satisfaction and money
请描述你理想的伴侣.
Right partner
你想住在哪里?
Of course I would like to say : in pretty place around in our little mansion ( ha ha ha) , but I think and tell it will be where is I will find a Real love and who knows maybe it will be with my dream ( he he he)